tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6543737438542055822024-02-20T18:32:09.368+08:00欲寡其過而未能也徐茂瑋部落格徐茂瑋http://www.blogger.com/profile/02751415852135312977noreply@blogger.comBlogger1643125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-654373743854205582.post-67169176896839145522019-11-12T15:35:00.000+08:002019-11-12T15:35:18.048+08:00洪蘭/當數學遇見美學 科技離不開人文 2019-11-11 聯合報 <br />
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<span style="color: #444444; font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">這是一個很有趣的問題,我們平常很少去想它。恰巧最近耶魯大學有個研究:從數學的美來討論視覺藝術和音樂的美有無一致性。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #444444; font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">作者之一是位數學家,他在上完一堂課後,對自己很滿意,隨口說了一句「今天的課就像舒伯特的<span lang="EN-US">sonata</span>一樣」。沒想到耶魯的學生音樂素養很不錯,有人下了課就來問他是什麼意思,引發了他的研究動機,找了作者之二的心理學家,一起來探討。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #444444; font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">數學被公認是所有科學的基礎,數學上有個<span lang="EN-US">Occam's razor</span>的簡約法則,講究優雅(<span lang="EN-US">elegant</span>)、清晰(<span lang="EN-US">clarity</span>)等等,數學家喜歡說這個證明很美。一般人對數學也有很多直覺,例如在「<span lang="EN-US">4-2=2</span>,因為<span lang="EN-US">2+2=4</span>」,和「<span lang="EN-US">2+2=4</span>,因為<span lang="EN-US">4-2=2</span>」的推論中,一般人偏愛前者,因為前者<span lang="EN-US">basic</span>。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #444444; font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">曾有研究請數學家在核磁共振儀中,對數學公式做美的評分,結果發現符合他們心目中美的標準時,大腦眼眶皮質內側(<span lang="EN-US">medial orbitofrontal</span>)會活化起來,跟我們對視覺和聽覺刺激感到美是同一個地方。大腦竟然有專門反應美的地方,真是令人驚訝。因為閱讀這個能力對人類文明這麼重要,但大腦中並沒有一個地方是閱讀中心。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<br />徐茂瑋http://www.blogger.com/profile/02751415852135312977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-654373743854205582.post-12085770194094562052019-11-12T15:29:00.000+08:002019-11-12T15:29:22.503+08:00方祖涵/大聯盟冠軍的政治氣味 2019-11-07 聯合報 <h1 class="story_art_title" id="story_art_title" style="border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(215, 215, 215); color: #222222; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; letter-spacing: 1px; line-height: 1.3; margin: 0px; padding: 0px 0px 14px; text-align: justify;">
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<span style="color: #444444; font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><span style="font-size: small;">國民隊老闆雖然是極端正統猶太家族出身,按理該因為以色列問題支持強硬派現任總統,事實卻剛好相反。當川普宣布將在大賽第五戰出席時,國民隊立即表示不會讓他開球,而且冷淡回應只因每個人都有看球權利無法拒絕總統到場,真正請來開球貴賓更是城裡著名慈善名廚荷西.安卓爾斯<span lang="EN-US">──</span>這位川普宿敵在波多黎各風災後替災民煮了三百五十萬份食物,還為拒絕替川普飯店工作與總統對簿公堂。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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徐茂瑋http://www.blogger.com/profile/02751415852135312977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-654373743854205582.post-58870981349108638742019-10-24T16:28:00.000+08:002019-10-24T16:28:29.456+08:00方祖涵/被臉書誤殺的文字 2019-10-24 00:10聯合報<br />
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<b><span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;">從搜尋引擎最佳化到聲譽管理,每個公司行銷會議都離不開影音內容,因為誰都不敢在臉書認證的新戰場缺席。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif;"><b>結果,是臉書把數據搞錯了。</b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">從二○一七年六月起,北美福斯體育網就再也沒有傳統文字記者了。對於許多媒體人來說,那是夢想終結的開始。追隨主要競爭對手ESPN腳步,福斯體育將負責文字內容的人員全部裁光,兩間公司加起來總共有數百名記者失業,其中甚至不乏運動迷耳熟能詳重量級人物。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">裁員當天,福斯體育寄了封信向剩餘員工解釋決定,信上清楚指出數位影音會是公司未來發展重點:「把資源與營運模式從傳統文字轉移出去,專注於顧客喜歡的跨平台優質影音」、「這個演化來自深入研究、眾多資料,與銷售紀錄。我們聆聽廣告主聲音,他們希望伴隨產品資訊的內容是影音,因此我們更需積極發展此項服務。」</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">換句話說,文字已死,現代人只想看速食影像,沒有人願意閱讀。臉書數據清楚宣告文字與影音兩者懸殊的吸引力,如果海明威活在當下,那些活靈活現描述拳擊手的故事都會被當作多餘,拍段短片比較實際。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">現在回顧當時情況,雖然當時媒體集團裁員幅度驚人,從大方向來看仍然不算意外。商家依據流量報告投放廣告,影音不僅已經獨占鰲頭,未來差距更將逐漸擴大。從搜尋引擎最佳化到聲譽管理,每個公司行銷會議都離不開影音內容,因為誰都不敢在臉書認證的新戰場缺席。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">結果,是臉書把數據搞錯了。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">根據廣告公司提出集體訴訟,在臉書發現並修正錯誤前很長一段時間裡,影音收視流量被高估一倍半到九倍之間,廣告主因此被誤導並造成可能高達兩億美金直接損失。經過冗長辯論程序,這幾天雙方達成庭外和解協議,臉書在不承認過失情況下願意賠償四千萬,不過協議仍需要經過法官審核,而且就算通過,扣掉三成律師費後,廣告公司與商家獲得賠償跟實質損害還是不成比例。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;">在法庭攻防上,臉書不承認過失理由是說商家無法證實自己是因為錯誤數據投放廣告,儘管邏輯根本不合常理,卻在講究證據的法庭很管用。四千萬美金不到臉書一年廣告收入百分之零點二,真的是不痛不癢,紐約大學商學院行銷教授蓋洛威就說那跟輕拍一下手腕沒兩樣,儘管臉書造成「許多公司改變經營策略、商家破產,人們因此失業」等嚴重後果。他更進一步指出既然臉書持續藉由誤導數據賺錢,錯誤不再只是錯誤,而是刻意製造謊言。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br />徐茂瑋http://www.blogger.com/profile/02751415852135312977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-654373743854205582.post-23103831556559134272019-10-11T14:46:00.000+08:002019-10-12T11:46:19.716+08:00瑞芳吉慶國小,演講:《凝視死神 追求精彩人生─ 談老師修己以安學生》 徐茂瑋<b>9/16(一)因過度疼痛急診,9/17(二)住院,10/10(四)出院。10/09醫師准假,赴瑞芳吉慶國小......</b><br />
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10/09醫師准假,赴瑞芳吉慶國小,演講:《凝視死神 追求精彩人生─ 談老師修己以安學生》,民國85年靜修畢業生參一腳,讓我感動不已。<br />
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她們同班同學品嘉(現職音樂教師),不克到場,但在學校看直播─且強調沒打瞌睡。接著在音樂教室,即興演奏一曲,對我表達敬意,謝謝品嘉。(音樂檔我一時放不上)<br />
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徐茂瑋http://www.blogger.com/profile/02751415852135312977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-654373743854205582.post-68193532477666130552019-09-16T18:39:00.001+08:002019-09-16T20:28:01.354+08:00我見我思:邱祖胤》俗女不俗 19:012019/09/15 中國時報<br />
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<br />徐茂瑋http://www.blogger.com/profile/02751415852135312977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-654373743854205582.post-22523176827007839262019-09-11T10:59:00.001+08:002019-09-11T10:59:37.438+08:00洪蘭/大腦是可能改變的 2019-09-10 聯合報 <br />
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<br />徐茂瑋http://www.blogger.com/profile/02751415852135312977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-654373743854205582.post-33494869672101192302019-09-04T19:29:00.000+08:002019-09-04T19:29:04.668+08:00盛治仁/自律才有真自由2019-09-03 聯合報 盛治仁(雲品國際董事長)<br />
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">我最早注意到他,是影片裡沒說的一部電影,他在拍聽障奧運主題的「聽說」時,也苦練學習了手語。其實當演員可以選擇不要那麼辛苦,只要在畫面上交代得過去就行,但是彭于晏的自律精神,讓他不斷成長進步,最後受益的還是自己。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">沒有人喜歡他律,讓別人決定自己該如何生活,但是如果又沒有能力自律,下場就會很慘。自律就是知道自己要什麼,而且能夠控制自己的惰性和本性,落實執行。過去聽過一個烏龜和毒蠍的故事。烏龜要渡河,毒蠍希望搭便車。烏龜說你一天到晚螫人,我不敢。毒蠍說我不會,如果螫了你,我也會淹死。游到一半,烏龜劇痛,臨死前問毒蠍你為什麼這麼做?毒蠍說,我控制不了自己。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">比爾蓋茲即便已經如此成功,他每年都還會對自己做年終評估,看看有沒有達到自我設定的要求。他去年問自己的三個問題是:有沒有花足</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: 細明體; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">夠</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">時間陪家人?有沒有學到新東西?有沒有開發新友誼,深化舊友誼?很多研究例如「恆毅力(<span lang="EN-US">Grit</span>)」都指出,自律比智商更能預測一個人未來的學業表現、工作成就及身體健康。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<br />徐茂瑋http://www.blogger.com/profile/02751415852135312977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-654373743854205582.post-73450518761129963702019-08-30T16:13:00.000+08:002019-08-30T16:13:00.558+08:00暑假過後 女兒粗糙的雙手 2019-08-29 聯合報 洪太/資深教育工作者(南投市)<br />
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<br />徐茂瑋http://www.blogger.com/profile/02751415852135312977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-654373743854205582.post-33293217968865041402019-08-30T16:09:00.000+08:002019-08-30T16:09:12.939+08:00李清志/樹木希林與老年學 2019-08-29 23:41聯合報<br />
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">樹木希林主演過許多膾炙人口的電影,包括「東京鐵塔」、「橫山家之味」、「小偷家族」等等,名導演是枝裕和特別喜歡使用她,主演電影中的母親與老媽媽角色。樹木希林晚年<span lang="EN-US"><span lang="EN-US" style="color: windowtext;"><span lang="EN-US">罹癌</span></span></span>,一直到去年才過世,她過世之後,大家讀她的書才發現,面對人生的苦楚、老年、病痛,甚至死亡,樹木希林是以何等智慧的態度去承受,並且從中得著舒坦的心境。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">樹木希林的書受歡迎,凸顯「老年學」(<span lang="EN-US">Gerontology</span>)逐漸受到大家重視。這些年來,台灣與日本都逐漸步入高齡社會,但是台灣關於老年學討論,其實很貧乏,因為過去台灣人對於老年與死亡,內心充滿抗拒與害怕,總是避諱不去討論,更不要說坦然面對它。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">在她書中,樹木希林倒是很坦然地面對老化與死亡。她說:「過了六十歲,就該要有過六十歲的樣子,應該要呈現出一種,順應自然的人之美。」這個社會總是不斷地告訴我們,老化是醜陋的、應該要凍齡、要消除皺紋、要讓時間在身體上靜止,所以要打玻尿酸、要拉皮,要用各種不同手段去抗拒老化。但是樹木希林卻希望大家認真接納自己老化事實,因為這是自然狀態,生命不同階段都有其可以展現的美感。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">「老年學」也包括老年生活規畫、退休住宅設計,甚至墓園喪禮設計等等,有人說退休住宅從四十多歲就應設計規畫,五十多歲時開始打造,因為等到六、七十歲已無力再打造理想退休家園了。很多人到老年不僅無力打造規畫自己的家園,滿屋子堆積雜物,也無力整理,以至於晚年與垃圾雜物為伍,生活品質低落。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<br />徐茂瑋http://www.blogger.com/profile/02751415852135312977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-654373743854205582.post-51401307056385611492019-08-28T15:43:00.001+08:002019-08-28T15:43:31.357+08:00願大學新生 精采過四年 2019-08-26聯合報 廖慶華/東華大學共同教育委員會副主委兼通識教育中心主任(花縣壽豐)<br />
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<span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif; text-indent: 32px;"><b>我們必須學習與人溝通、廣結善緣,但不表示要失去堅持或完全迎合他人。我教授書法時總強調,可以臨摹名家書法,但最後還是要發展出自己獨特風格......</b></span></div>
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Vincent</span>說:「你如何看待一個問題,比這個問題本身更重要─所以,常保正向思考。」我們要培養自己成為正向思考的人,才會發光發熱。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<br />徐茂瑋http://www.blogger.com/profile/02751415852135312977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-654373743854205582.post-47166537445348773212019-08-28T15:42:00.000+08:002019-08-28T15:42:03.799+08:00新課綱上路 還只看分數不看孩子? 2019-08-26 聯合報 呂健吉/華梵大學哲學系副教授(宜縣礁溪)<br />
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<br />徐茂瑋http://www.blogger.com/profile/02751415852135312977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-654373743854205582.post-90031143817969260212019-08-17T20:43:00.000+08:002019-08-17T20:43:05.294+08:00薛承泰/父親節的震撼 2019-08-13 聯合報(台灣大學教授)<br />
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<br />徐茂瑋http://www.blogger.com/profile/02751415852135312977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-654373743854205582.post-86834181023561640192019-08-17T11:29:00.002+08:002019-08-17T11:29:43.507+08:00王正方/楊安澤名列第八2019-08-16 聯合報<br />
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<br />徐茂瑋http://www.blogger.com/profile/02751415852135312977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-654373743854205582.post-81002139125555812502019-08-07T19:54:00.002+08:002019-08-07T19:54:33.066+08:00【浮生人物誌 46】王正方/譚老虎 2019-08-07 06:22聯合報<br />
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">當年建國中學初中部最嚴厲的教師,當然是教幾何的王牌譚老師,綽號譚幾何、別名譚老虎,我覺得叫他譚老虎比較切合。沒有通過譚老虎這一關,休想初中畢業。譚老虎戴著一副褐色鏡片的眼鏡,臉上從沒有笑容,聲音低沉,略有點<span lang="EN-US"><span lang="EN-US" style="color: windowtext;"><span lang="EN-US">上海</span></span></span>口音,喜歡說幾句成語,講話很有權威性,說一不二。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">頭一堂課他上來說明一些規定:課堂裡不准隨便講話、作業一定要準時繳,遲繳的罰重作、作業要按照他的規格來寫:每頁紙上下左右空出來的地方是多少公分,一律不能錯,字體要整齊,幾何圖形要公整正確等等。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">發回作業的時候最令人緊張,譚老虎會拿那些不合格的作業來一一講評,把學生叫到前面來,先羞辱兩句然後宣判:罰重作<span lang="EN-US">X</span>遍!第一次發回作業我就出洋相,譚老虎在講台上隨手翻看一落作業,他問:<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">「你們班上有一個名字叫什麼正方的,是誰呀?」<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">我立刻筆直地站起來,譚老虎冷笑著:「你的字寫得又不正,圖畫得也不方,還能叫正方?罰重作;一遍。」<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">如釋重負,重作一遍是最輕的了。老虎師自以為幽默,消遣學生是他的樂趣。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">有一次他出的作業題目超級難,我又是到了次日要繳的那天晚上才去做幾何題目。剛打完籃球,累到睜不開眼睛,看著那幾道題目:乖乖,一題也不會!事態緊急,我推出爸爸的那輛能率牌二十六吋、慢板老<span lang="EN-US"><span lang="EN-US" style="color: windowtext;"><span lang="EN-US">自行車</span></span></span>,帶上作業本子衝到王七家去。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">王七家的地方不大,住著祖孫三代好多人。比較大的那間榻榻米房間內有一盞日光檯燈,幾個小孩圍著燈做功課。他也還沒做完明天要繳的幾何習題,我在那裡和他一同寫著,其實是在那兒跟著抄。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">題目做不出來,王七苦苦思索。我看見窗外昏暗的光線中,有個健壯的老頭挑著兩只水桶,赤著腳一步一步的在院子裡走,老人的腳很寬,腳趾誇張的向內彎曲,踏在泥地上特別穩重;他放下肩上的扁擔,用一支大木杓舀出桶中的水肥來,就著街邊路燈澆菜。我問王七:<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">「你阿公為什麼在晚上澆菜?」<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">「白天的太陽太厲害,澆下去馬上就蒸發了。清早澆水又怕吵醒我們。」<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">五題只做了三題,明天再去問問其他的同學吧!第二天王七想出來另外一題怎麼做,我把這四題整整齊齊的寫上去,做不出來的那一題我就在上面寫了「不會」兩個字。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">譚老虎發回作業的時候,把我叫到前面去。他對我怒吼:<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">「你在這裡寫『不會』是什麼意思?很妙,是在說我這個做教員的沒有盡到責任,教不會學生?怎麼其他的同學就會做呢?學生天天來上學,就是要學會你原來不會的。你說『不會』就是要放棄學習了嗎?」<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">我連忙表示一定會用功努力學習。他的裁決不算重:罰重作三遍。「不會」這兩個字正犯了他的大忌。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">事後同學一直說我笨,譚老虎最不喜歡學生在作業本子上亂寫字,不會做的題目也要認真的寫出來你演算的過程,得不到答案不要緊,譚老虎會在上面寫幾個字,告訴你錯在哪裡;下次繳作業再清楚地把解題的步驟、正確的答案寫出來。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">譚老虎罰重作最花時間,就算題目都會做,必須要按照他的規格一筆一畫的寫,千萬不可馬虎,他也許不仔細看這份重作的作業,但是一旦讓他發現了任何錯誤,又要罰重作。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">最可怕的是「掛黑板」。有時候譚老虎不想講課了,就叫幾個學生上來,在黑板上解不同的題目。眾目睽睽之下壓力非常大,往往是明明會做的題目,到了「掛黑板」的時分腦袋一片空白,當場就傻在那裡!就聽見譚老虎不停的冷嘲熱諷,他不發話你又不敢回座位去,只得站在黑板前一籌莫展的挨訓,譚老師若是心情不好,會過來揪學生的耳朵,罵道:「其笨如豬」。謂之「掛黑板」。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">有一次阿曲被叫上去做一道比較難的題目,阿曲的數學功力在班上大概算是中等,解難題的本事普通。他在黑板前鼓弄了一陣子,演算不出什麼東西來。譚老虎說了一堆刺耳的話,不知道為什麼阿曲居然敢回嘴,老虎師大怒,厲聲痛罵起來,他愈說愈氣,就走過去抓住阿曲的兩隻耳朵,將他的頭面向黑板猛撞,發出砰然巨響!阿曲的臉</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: 細明體; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">剎</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">那間紅了起來,連耳根和脖子都通紅。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">譚老虎每次考試只出三題,給四種分數:<span lang="EN-US">100</span>,<span lang="EN-US">66</span>、<span lang="EN-US">33</span>,<span lang="EN-US">0</span>分。他的考卷都是演算題,每題<span lang="EN-US">33</span>分,三題都對再加一分,得一百分;答案正確但是演算中有瑕疵或不妥之處,也不給一點分數,因為幾何是科學,容不得一絲一毫的錯誤。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">發考卷時他先唱名字,再報分數;班上誰考了多少分,全部公開。我經常得到他的唱誦是:「王正方,三十三」;或「王正方,六十六!」偶爾也矇上個一百分,就在及格邊緣上掙扎。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">同學們考得太糟或考得太好,譚老虎都不高興,他說:「你們在夢遊嗎?得零分的像野狗一樣多!」<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">「這次題目太容易,一百分的像野狗一樣多。沒有拿到一百分的,送分數也不要,你們都在那裡幹什麼?」<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">上譚老虎的課,內心經常處於恐懼狀態。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">響</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: 細明體; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">噹噹</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">的建國中學王牌數學老師,講課一定特別精采吧!完全錯了,譚老虎在一節四十五分鐘的幾何課堂上,平均講課時間最多二十分鐘左右;其他的時間用來批評時政或論述天下大勢。他對於行政當局的許多作為,通常都能做出及時、尖銳、很不客氣的批判和指責,說出來很多人都同意,但是又不敢說的話。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">他對穿<span lang="EN-US"><span lang="EN-US" style="color: windowtext;"><span lang="EN-US">制服</span></span></span>的人;<span lang="EN-US"><span lang="EN-US" style="color: windowtext;"><span lang="EN-US">警察</span></span></span>、軍人、情治人員,最是不假辭色,認為他們都屬於為虎作倀、禍國殃民的狗腿子。記得他經常講起<span lang="EN-US"><span lang="EN-US" style="color: windowtext;"><span lang="EN-US">抗戰</span></span></span>時期在上海的故事:日本軍全面統治上海後,淪陷之前的警察換上了偽政府的制服,又在上海作威作福起來;他稱那些人是「黃色動物」,還能算是個人嗎?我們的校服也是黃卡其布做的,譚老虎心情惡劣的時候會說:「你們就這樣混下去吧!到時候統統都去當黃色動物,連制服也不用換了。」<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">幾年來他在每個班上就這麼大放厥詞,當然會有人向有關單位報告。據說情治機構對譚老師做過調</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: 細明體; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">查</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">,私下警告過譚老師,還有相關人士曾經找我們的賀校長談話。譚老師知道了就去面見賀校長,說如果他為建中帶來了麻煩,便立即請辭。校長向他保證,不會有事的,你的教學成績很好,請放心繼續教你的幾何。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">父親後來告訴我:老賀的底子硬,各方面的關係都好,你們的那位譚老師就是嘴巴碎,憤世嫉俗,不停的發個牢騷,只要沒有實際犯了什麼事,老賀就挺得住他。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">比我高一屆的小顧,同學們認為他是個數學天才。在舊書攤買到一本《平面幾何難題大全》,他獨自鑽研了一陣。上幾何課的時候,提出一道難題問譚老虎怎麼解?因為小顧是個好學生,老師不疑有他就在黑板上一五一十的畫了圖,想法子解題目。麻煩了,這道題目超級難,一時哪裡想得出解法來?譚老師給「掛黑板」啦!<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">小顧很得意,竟然在一旁小聲地說:<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">「哦!老師不會作了耶。」<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">然後小顧提醒,從<span lang="EN-US">A</span>點到<span lang="EN-US">C</span>點加一條補助線看看?果然,加上一條線就豁然開朗,這道題目便迎刃而解了。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">但是小顧沒有得意太久,學期快結束的時候,譚老虎抓到小顧犯的一個錯誤,大發雷霆,處罰他重作這個學期所有的作業,三遍!大考之前必須繳齊。小顧慘了,忙了幾個晚上沒睡什麼覺,方才勉強寫好,交卷應付差事。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">我們有打油詩一首:<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">人生在世有幾何,何必苦苦學幾何?</span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">堂上老虎立規矩,就是把你來折磨</span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">作業千萬別馬虎,畫圖演算莫出錯</span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">膽敢同我耍聰明,罰你三遍來重作</span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">埋首用功窮應付,考卷發下不及格</span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">提心吊膽掛黑板、其笨如豬就是我</span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">正襟危坐聽牢騷、大好時光任蹉跎</span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">戰戰兢兢難度日、學了幾何又幾何?</span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">恐怖的學期終於結束,我勉強過了譚老虎這一關。我們究竟學到了什麼?多年之後細細回想,其實從譚老師那裡學到不少:<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">‧學數學(別的事也一樣)不能抄近道,必須一步一步的走下去。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">‧整整齊齊的依規定寫作業,重要的是:你自己懂了還不</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: 細明體; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">夠</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">,一定要有條有理的、漂亮的、具說服力的把它呈現出來。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">‧做不出答案來的考題,就是有瑕疵的半成品,不給分數。長大了才知道世事都是如此;未完成的電影,能賣一毛錢嗎?<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: Meiryo; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">‧譚老師沒花很多時間講課,但是他仔細批改大家的作業,在演算題目的過程中錯在哪裡,他給你點出來,雖然他的用詞通常很刻薄粗暴。演算過程的邏輯正確性,更重於答案;要學會你是怎麼得到正確答案的。他的考試從來沒有選擇題。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<br />徐茂瑋http://www.blogger.com/profile/02751415852135312977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-654373743854205582.post-41170243087788213952019-08-06T15:38:00.000+08:002019-08-06T15:38:07.881+08:00【生活進行式】范廣元/退場白 聯合報 文/范廣元 2019-08-05<br />
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">心理治療和生活中的對話聊天並不相同,治療師和個案透過定期晤談,建立治療關係,個案的人際互動模式從中展現,於此架構中,個案得以梳理想法,情緒經驗也慢慢得到矯正。這是個漫長的過程。而退場白之所以重要,是它透露了在正規時段因「阻抗」沒有顯露的訊息。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">一般精神科門診,會談時間不像心理治療般固定,但有類似之處,患者坐在椅子上時就像正規時段;看診結束,患者起身走到門口短短幾步,有人會回頭講幾句話,隨即開門離去。這些話我會看成退場白,而特別重視。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<br />徐茂瑋http://www.blogger.com/profile/02751415852135312977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-654373743854205582.post-51392158321663438052019-08-02T19:09:00.001+08:002019-08-02T19:09:09.509+08:00我見我思:邱祖胤》3C人生誰來評分 中國時報 20:212019/08/01 <br />
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<br />徐茂瑋http://www.blogger.com/profile/02751415852135312977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-654373743854205582.post-55255254946666387272019-07-27T13:01:00.003+08:002019-07-27T13:01:47.547+08:00【雲起時】洪荒/都是因為愛 聯合報 2019-07-26<figure class="photo_center photo-story" style="background-color: white; color: #444444; float: none; font-family: Meiryo, "Microsoft JhengHei UI", "Microsoft JhengHei", 微軟正黑體, "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", 微软雅黑体, 微軟雅黑體, "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Lucida Grande", Arial, "WenQuanYi Micro Hei", sans-serif, 黑体, 黑體; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1px; margin: 10px auto; max-width: 626px; position: relative; text-align: justify; visibility: visible;"><figcaption style="font-size: 13px; padding: 10px 0px 30px;"><blockquote style="background-color: whitesmoke; border-left: 5px solid rgb(204, 204, 204); font-size: 18px; margin: 20px 0px; padding: 1em;">
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離婚之後,你多了一個女兒。大女兒Hannah和她的哈佛學妹Sasha在加州結婚,婚禮用的是她倆英文名字的組合Sashannah,「你中有我,我中有你」。</div>
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婚禮在Sanborn County Park舉行,巨大的紅木環繞,藍天在上,人在其中渺小而勤奮,一百多位賓客不是只來觀禮,其中三分之一同時是工作人員。婚禮是他們的共同創作,從場地布置到化妝、攝影、主持、音樂,全是這些朋友和女兒一起DIY,結婚蛋糕是Sasha哥哥做的,連證婚也是女兒的博士班室友出任,她有美國律師執照。</div>
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婚禮還有現做的珍珠奶茶,人手一杯。怎能沒有呢?對加州來說,珍珠奶茶等於台灣,女兒想放鬆或慶祝什麼時,珍奶一定相陪,結婚大喜日,敬邀珍奶大駕光臨。</div>
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婚禮從早上九點「玩」到下午五點,像大型家家酒,沒有繁文縟節,只有愛情、親情、友情,溫暖而神聖。結婚誓詞是兩個新娘自己寫的,她們互看著彼此,一字一句朗誦,Hannah用英文說一段,Sasha用中文重說一遍:</div>
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——我答應你,我會跟你說真話,擁抱彼此的不完美,完完全全接受你之所以為你。</div>
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——我答應你,在我們充滿學習的人生旅途,我會優先選擇探險,並珍惜未知所帶來的驚與喜。</div>
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——我答應你,我會是你獨立精神的守護者,支持你的自由,鼓勵你的成長,並為你的靈魂留有一塊自在寬敞的空間。</div>
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——我承諾,我將聽你,懂你,相知相惜,作你人生夥伴,平起平坐,帶著對世界與彼此的尊敬,一起經歷此生此世,共享其中的快樂。</div>
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——我承諾,我將與他人分享我們的力量,並因了解我們的幸運與優勢而謙卑。我將與你一起努力,每天都試著讓這個世界,變得比我們剛發現它的時候,再更好一點。</div>
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誓詞沒有一字說「愛」,但是,沒有一句不是在說「愛」,從小愛到大愛,都是動詞。她們相互承諾對自己人生永遠好奇,也作彼此人生探險時的「護法」,不僅是彼此共好,還要和世界共好。</div>
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婚禮第二天,二十多個朋友和她們一起去淨山,這是朋友「送」她們的結婚禮物。這禮物真是刻骨銘心,因為山上到處蔓生Poison Ivy(毒漆藤,又名毒葛),全株有漆酚,只要沾上皮膚,又癢又痛,還會長水泡。連空氣都有漆酚,所以,呼吸也疼,三周才好。</div>
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她們愛山愛水愛自然,淨山是她們和朋友對恩養他們的地球的一種禮敬。</div>
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「愛」不是「自愛」而已。你在她們的結婚誓詞裡,看到「白首偕老」的意境,是一生活活潑潑的行動、實踐,永遠生機盎然的相伴,自己像每天欣欣向榮的花樹,總有新葉新枝新花,讓對方常感新鮮、驚喜,也讓對方向世界出發、叩問。你若是一個殘缺的圓,不要期待伴侶與你「互補」,讓你變成完整的圓;我們所謂的「另一半」其實不是你的一半,他是另一個圓,是獨立個體,有自己獨立人生,他是你一生都應感恩的「紅利」,是你多得的,因此,婚姻是讓你們擁有一加一大於二的人生,而你們要再讓大於二的人生回報此世。</div>
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這樣的白首偕老,越老越好越美;這樣的「至死不渝」,不是死水,不會讓彼此窒息。婚姻如果「無話可說」了,也許是兩人之中有人先變「無聊」了,並用自己的「無聊」悶殺了婚姻。</div>
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愛是一種修身,是自修,也要共修。做不了「自了漢」。</div>
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愛是一種志業,「志於道,據於德,依於仁,游於藝」。立基於善,才能讓自己更好,才能互敬互信互諒;最後要化為生活上各式「游於藝」,才能有滋有味有趣,才能持久。愛是這樣的一種志業,而其結果則是雙方的共業,一起「自作自受」。</div>
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作為母親,一個結婚三十三年離婚的女人,你非常慚愧,你和她爸爸結婚時,知道「愛」要有這樣大的能量才能互許終生嗎?</div>
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你的婚姻失敗了,但是,你女兒的婚姻有了極好的開始。</div>
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女兒婚禮有一個橋段,你很喜歡。她們在一張野餐桌上擺了四個玻璃瓶,每個賓客拿到四張彩紙,寫上對這對新人在婚禮第二天、一周年、十周年、四十周年時想說的話,然後把每張紙摺成小星星,放入依年標示的玻璃瓶,而她們只會在時間到時才打開紙條。這是另一種時間膠囊,是寫給未來的簡訊。你在寫四十周年時,眼淚奪眶,她們打開紙條時,你應已不在人間,對她們來說,那將是你最後留言,你要說什麼?</div>
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女兒小時,不知為什麼開始「怕死」,怕你死,怕永遠失去你。你告訴她們,媽咪的愛遍布宇宙,就算你的形體不在,只要她們抬頭,只要還有天空,你就在。</div>
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你在她們上下左右,沒有離開,但你最後要留下什麼諄諄之言給仍在人間的她們?「愛是恆久忍耐,又有恩慈」,這句《聖經》裡的話,自你心底冒出。</div>
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你不是基督徒,但是,你心底有一個上帝。你自小相信有一個上帝,這世界「四時行焉,百物生焉」,如此豐美,如此井然有序,如此不可思議,「天何言哉」,你相信有一個上帝,祂是造物主。你心底的上帝滿含慈愛,不管你是不是基督徒,不管你是男或女、異性戀或同性戀、未婚或離婚,祂對你們的愛沒有差別。祂是無限。</div>
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你想對女兒結婚四十周年說的話,就是《聖經》哥林多前書〈愛的真諦〉:</div>
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愛是恆久忍耐,又有恩慈。</div>
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愛是不嫉妒,愛是不自誇,不張狂,</div>
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不作害羞的事,不求自己的益處,</div>
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不輕易發怒,不計算人的惡,</div>
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不喜歡不義,只喜歡真理。</div>
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凡事包容,凡事相信,凡事盼望,凡事忍耐。</div>
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愛是永不止息。</div>
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這段話在新婚可能理所當然,但在結婚四十年重讀時,她們已然共度許多風雨,意義應更深刻。</div>
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你跟女兒的爸爸沒有走過四十年,你希望女兒和她的人生伴侶可以共度五十年、六十年、七十年。你只要想到那一刻,都會笑。</div>
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你深深感謝女兒,因為她們,你更了解「人」。人之所以為人,應該像她們誓詞中對自我的要求——盡其可能寬大,大到可以容納和自己截然不同的人,並盡其可能給對方一個自由寬大的空間;人之所以為人,是盡其可能勇敢,突破自己極限,然後讓自己更寬更大,進而讓世界更豐饒美麗,可以養護更多的生命。</div>
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最近,女兒應史丹佛大學一個和性別及科學有關的研究社團之邀,做了一點生命分享,她在簡報裡用了三個時間軸圖表,第一個是她個人求學工作的歷程,她如何愛上科學,並以它為志業;第二個是她的性別認同過程,她如何找到自己和摯愛並出櫃;第三個圖表有你,你們的家變,你如何以書寫重生;第四個圖表是上面三個的整合,她的人生時間軸立刻看起來很有厚度。圖表簡單,但看著她長大的你,知道其中每一步都不容易。她事後跟你說,她的時間軸裡有你,「你中有我,我中有你」。</div>
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她在那個小小的演說提到你。她說,你在她出櫃時,雖然無知而惶惑,卻在第一時間立刻接受,因為你知道這世界對他們這樣的人並不友善,「我要讓我的孩子有家可以回」;然後,你以筆替彩虹之子發聲、簽連署書,希望更多人了解他們,給他們公平的環境。半年前,你好友的兒子來你家過生日,在許願時,突然泣不成聲,「我希望爸媽接受我喜歡男人這個事實」,他媽媽愕然,但立刻擁抱了他。他選擇在你家出櫃,女兒認為是你讓心靈孤單、受苦的彩虹之子覺得安全。</div>
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她在演講結束前說,任何難題都不會很快解決,要有耐性,開放心胸,保持和他人對話,「仁慈,傾聽,一起成長」。</div>
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女兒真的長大了,有時,你覺得她們才是媽媽,而你變成她們女兒。她們以自己的人生在教你。你滿懷感恩,謝謝老天讓Hannah和Sasha找到彼此、確定自己。你甚至感激Sasha的單親媽媽,她生養出這麼出色的女兒,讓你女兒的人生路上不寂寞。</div>
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女兒跟你姓,原本那是你對父親的愛,希望作為獨子的他知道自己的姓氏、香煙可以相傳,但是,女兒有自己的人生。</div>
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女兒的爸爸當時同意讓女兒跟你姓,也是他對你的愛。只是你們忽略了愛和歲月一樣,「逝者如斯夫,不舍畫夜」,必須永不止息的自修,否則水會枯竭。你們都辜負了當年對彼此的赤子之情。</div>
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你那個保守的八、九十歲父親,當時在知道那個以他為姓的外孫女是同志之後,冷靜了一天,以line告訴她,「幸福快樂就好」。2016女兒訂婚那一年,你媽媽和你一起去參加<a href="https://udn.com/search/tagging/2/%E5%A9%9A%E5%A7%BB%E5%B9%B3%E6%AC%8A" rel="122554" style="color: #0054a6; outline: none; text-decoration-line: none;"><span style="color: #888888; text-decoration-line: underline;">婚姻平權</span></a>大遊行,那是你們第一次上街頭,你還給八十多歲的老娘拍了一張照,笑說她可能是這個遊行裡最高齡的長輩。</div>
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女兒結婚後,兩人都維持原姓,但把對方的姓氏變成她們的middle name,多麼智慧,愛能生智。沒有任何宗教或制度,可以攔阻她們的愛。</div>
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只要有愛,就會仁慈,傾聽,耐心與人一起成長。都是因為愛,讓你相信世界有上帝,人間仍然真善美。</div>
徐茂瑋http://www.blogger.com/profile/02751415852135312977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-654373743854205582.post-20621421890178271092019-07-27T12:55:00.001+08:002019-07-27T12:55:31.571+08:00陳嫦芬:放狗出來,台灣年輕人也會跳牆! 今周刊 872期 2013年9月<div style="background-color: white; color: #444444; font-family: arial, "Century Gothic"; font-size: 13px; letter-spacing: 0.65px; margin-bottom: 1em; padding: 0px;">
<span style="letter-spacing: 0.65px;"><b>兩岸年輕人的競爭力到底差多大?北京清華大學20年來極少數被評價特優的師長陳嫦芬,目前在兩岸最高學府教書,對於兩邊實力有第一手觀察,她深深憂慮:台灣人才的培育已經來不及了。</b></span></div>
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陳嫦芬,曾任元大金控執行長暨總經理、瑞士銀行投資銀行集團亞太區副董事長暨台灣區總裁、荷蘭荷興霸菱證券集團亞太區董事……。國際金融圈的扎實訓練及投資銀行的完整資歷,讓她受邀至對岸一流學府北京清華大學任教。</div>
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陳嫦芬在北京清華經濟管理學院MBA開設「職場素養與領導力」課程,兩年的講授,她成為清華二十年來極少數被評價特優的師長。卓越成績在中國快速傳播,「北京清大的 陳 老師」名聲愈來愈響亮;然而,她其實比較想當「台大的 陳老師」,於是向台大財金系毛遂自薦,返母校台大教書;現階段在兩岸最高學府同時任教,站在第一線接觸兩岸頂尖年輕人,她有哪些深刻體會?</div>
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面對台大的學生,我滿心著急;面對北京清大的學生,我則有一種「得天下英才而教之」的滿足。兩樣情,有點悲哀。我是台南清貧家庭出身的孩子,道道地地的台灣人,何嘗不希望這樣的感受能夠倒轉過來?但我還是要很坦白地說,台灣已被邊緣化,人才的培育來不及了。</div>
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在清華,我曾在課堂上發問,「沒有當過狀元的人請站起來。」結果,只有不到二○%的學生起立,村的也好、鄉的也罷!幾乎人人都當過狀元,說是萬中選一不為過,當然拔尖優秀。而他們的優秀不僅表現在課業上,好學、進取的態度更讓人折服。</div>
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只提一次筆記本規格陸生下堂課已全部更換有一次,我和同學分享在國際投資銀行工作的實況,提到我們習慣使用的筆記本規格,以及怎麼做筆記。沒想到,第二堂課再見到這群學生,他們所使用的筆記本,幾乎全部已更換成國際投行會使用的標準規格。</div>
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所有的事情講一次、糾正一次,他們極少錯第二次。一再的驗證下,我發現陸生有個特色,那就是只要他們認同你講的原理,那麼明天大家都會「自發」去做對的事情。</div>
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至於他們打破砂鍋問到底的精神,那更是沒話說,愛問、會問,重點是他們能精準地問,各個口條清晰,能言善道。我也觀察到,他們在課堂上的提問,課前就記錄在筆記本上,並不是臨時起意。當然,上課沒人缺席、沒人遲到,就連下了課都精采萬分,每次四小時的課堂結束後,我都還要被同學團團圍住,黏著問問題,根本沒人想放過老師。</div>
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經常上演的還有,我與這群年輕人不過是吃吃飯、閒聊天,但回去後我馬上收到email,信上同學告訴我,從今天的談話中得到了什麼啟發,再清楚列示數個重點,還缺什麼,打算看完幾本書且列出書單,再與我相約一個月後碰面報告。</div>
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所以我才說,在清華教書,是當老師最高的喜悅。只是,面對他們的渴望、積極、進取,回過頭來看台灣年輕人的「不貪心」、浸淫在「小確幸」的狀態中,我的焦慮感因此愈來愈深。</div>
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<strong>台生軟體團隊賺到錢就好不打算變谷歌</strong></div>
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最近我就碰到一個「無言」的狀況,某機構請我擔任幾位年輕人的顧問,他們所設計的軟體被國外公司相中,在決定賣與不賣間,我提出建議,希望他們以此做根基,先想辦法尋求培訓,把公司體質強化,再把公司推上國際舞台。</div>
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沒想到,這些年輕人告訴我:「這樣做已經賺很多了,我們『不貪心』、我們並沒有打算變成Google(谷歌)……。」最後,他們決定用數百萬元把公司賣掉。</div>
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我不禁感嘆:台灣的年輕人,目光如芝麻嗎?</div>
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再舉個例,今天如果一個台灣大學生在臉書上寫到:「我被陳老師罵。」接下來的二十則留言會是什麼?「我也有被她罵過、你最棒了、你不要難受啦、沒關係……」請問,這些「溫暖」的留言,能引領你檢討的動能嗎?能重建你追求卓越的精神嗎?</div>
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面對兩岸的消長,尤其是我在大陸清華教書的衝擊,有一陣子我常問自己:「陳嫦芬,妳在搞什麼?妳究竟是中國還是台灣的老師?」只是「著急」終究不能解決問題,所以一股強烈的動力把我拉回台灣教書,這是我在台大財金系開課的主因,是一種強烈的「急迫感」。開課前,我舉辦了一場說明會,告訴學生,我在北京碰到了什麼,如果你要玩真的才來,否則別來。</div>
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其實台灣頂尖的年輕人服氣你了,表現還是令人欣慰;班上五十位學生,整學期下來缺席率是「零」,只有兩個學生曾經遲到。</div>
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誰說,台灣的學生只想在大學玩四年?寒假期間,這群學生整天都跟著我,過年也不回家,他們有很大的渴望變成更好、更棒的人。過程中,雖然我很少肯定他們,但學期結束後,我告訴他們,「你們很接近達到我要的標準。」於是我發現,台灣的學生絕對有潛力,說得白一點,只要你放狗出來,他們還是會想辦法跳牆。</div>
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那麼,問題出在哪?我曾經問清華的學生:父母對你們最大的期望是什麼?大概七成人的答案不脫:「為廣大的人民服務、在你的領域裡做一個拔尖的人、賺錢要回饋家鄉。」同樣的問題問台大學生,得到的卻是:「快快樂樂、平平安安就好,幸福過一生,做自己喜歡的事。」</div>
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台灣的爸媽有錯嗎?沒有,但這些是我現在這個年紀在追求的事情。我常問年輕人,如果把人生拉成一條二十五到六十五歲的線,然後要把「追求卓越」這道課題放進去,你認為應該擺在哪個階段呢?我想答案呼之欲出。</div>
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雖然台灣的年輕人有潛力,我仍要公開講,北京清華學生平均而言,比台大學生優秀;我不怕有人罵我,只想陳述一個事實。</div>
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清華交換學生讓台大人輸慘慘當清華學生圍著我說:「老師,這是我系統化的學習,我開出的書單,您有何建議?」「老師,您認為我論述的能力如何,有哪些需要改進之處?」「老師,請您點評我獨立思考的深度。」台大的學生,則是對於和朋友分享哪家餐廳不錯、哪邊好玩的訊息,有更濃厚的興趣。我還是要強調,這沒有對錯,只是時間點錯置了。</div>
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再講到達標的企圖心,台灣人會圖一個相對舒服的方法去做到,問題是,追求卓越不可能會舒服。程度有別,競爭力立見高下。</div>
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說個小故事,我在台大原本只收五十位學生,但有一位來自北京清華大學的交換生,因為錯過我在清華的課程,因此要求加入,他是典型的成就動機很強、求知若渴的清大人。他在台灣時,台大這群學生,沒人討論他;他離開後,大家面面相覷。是的,大家都有一個相同的感覺,我們,輸尬ㄊㄧㄢㄊㄧㄢ(台語,輸很慘)!</div>
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所以,我想對全台灣的父母與師長吶喊:父母要「教」、要「育」,才是「愛」。為師者,在「授業」之外,多投入心力,實踐「傳道」與「解惑」的天職,才不辜負為師之道。</div>
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簡介:陳嫦芬</div>
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現職:新竹清大科學管理學院副教授、北京清大經濟管理學院特聘主講教師、台大管理學院財金系實務講師</div>
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學歷:美國史丹佛大學商學研究院訪問學者、台灣大學法律學士</div>
徐茂瑋http://www.blogger.com/profile/02751415852135312977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-654373743854205582.post-33608020152747320352019-07-20T11:34:00.000+08:002019-07-20T11:34:10.869+08:00王文華/想贏得選票,先吃個漢堡 2019-07-15 23:54聯合報 <figure class="photo_right photo-story" style="background-color: white; clear: right; color: #444444; float: right; font-family: Meiryo, "Microsoft JhengHei UI", "Microsoft JhengHei", 微軟正黑體, "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", 微软雅黑体, 微軟雅黑體, "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Lucida Grande", Arial, "WenQuanYi Micro Hei", sans-serif, 黑体, 黑體; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1px; margin: 5px 0px 10px 30px; max-width: 299px; position: relative; text-align: justify; visibility: visible;"><figcaption style="font-size: 13px; padding: 10px 0px 30px;"><br /></figcaption></figure><div style="background-color: white; color: #444444; font-family: Meiryo, "Microsoft JhengHei UI", "Microsoft JhengHei", 微軟正黑體, "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", 微软雅黑体, 微軟雅黑體, "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Lucida Grande", Arial, "WenQuanYi Micro Hei", sans-serif, 黑体, 黑體; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1px; margin-bottom: 20px; margin-top: 20px; text-align: justify;">
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<b>怎麼搶呢?下載漢堡王的App,當你的手機到了距離麥當勞店面一八三公尺以內,你會收到漢堡王App傳來的折價券,讓你用美金一分錢(台幣零點三元),買到漢堡王的「華堡」。</b></div>
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在政治或商業中,怎樣的訴求能打動大眾市場?</div>
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答案在<span style="color: #888888; text-decoration-line: underline;">漢堡</span>中。</div>
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一年一度的「坎城國際創意節」剛落幕。這是國際行銷人年度聚會,表揚一年來最傑出的行銷案例。</div>
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在「直效行銷」、「手機行銷」兩類,評審都把大獎頒給美國的漢堡王,因為他們到頭號競爭者<span style="color: #888888; text-decoration-line: underline;">麥當勞</span>的「家門口」搶生意。</div>
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怎麼搶呢?下載漢堡王的App,當你的手機到了距離麥當勞店面一八三公尺以內,你會收到漢堡王App傳來的折價券,讓你用美金一分錢(台幣零點三元),買到漢堡王的「華堡」。</div>
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怎麼買呢?App會導航,帶你到麥當勞附近的漢堡王。</div>
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這個行銷活動,教我們打動大眾的五種方法。</div>
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一是簡單。一句話就說明白。政府或企業中,很多良法美意,死在疊床架屋的步驟,和滴水不漏的但書。這個時代,多少人願意花時間去研究呢?</div>
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二是有感。在美國,「華堡」的價格在每個州不同,平均是台幣一二五元,而這個促銷價是台幣零點三元!打動人心,不能手軟。小家子氣,只會被酸。</div>
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至於促銷價是統一的台幣零點三元,不因為州的不同,而訂出不同的促銷價。這又回到了第一條的「簡單」。</div>
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三是容易執行。到麥當勞門口再去找漢堡王,多麻煩!為減少麻煩,漢堡王的App為你導航。政府或企業的好政策,如果執行起來麻煩,也沒人會埋單。</div>
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四是精準。只有到了麥當勞附近的人(想吃速食的人),才能得到優惠。</div>
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五是短期花小錢、長期賺大錢。一個漢堡台幣零點三元,當然賺不到錢!但做這件事的目的不是賺錢,是衝App下載量。夠多人下載了App,將來賺錢的門道多得是。對漢堡王來說,目標清楚,就不會計較成本。</div>
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結果,為期一周的促銷,帶來一五○萬次的下載。這些下載,讓漢堡王未來能從App了解消費者的購買行為,並做個人化行銷。這裡面的商機,比走進店裡的顧客都大。</div>
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總結來說,這活動避免了政府和企業在與民眾溝通時的通病。它機制「簡單」,大家都懂。目標「精準」,不亂投廣告擾民。有配套措施,「可行性」高。不小家子氣,於是「有感」。不小氣,於是創造了長期利益。</div>
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總統大選、企業銷售或任何想要訴求大眾市場的事情,成功的祕密,就在一個簡單的漢堡中。</div>
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<b>(作者是作家,網路媒體《創新拿鐵》創辦人)</b></div>
徐茂瑋http://www.blogger.com/profile/02751415852135312977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-654373743854205582.post-32572602368102277052019-07-20T11:30:00.000+08:002019-07-20T11:30:08.299+08:00方祖涵/各自表述的愛國主義 2019-07-18 聯合報<span style="background-color: white; color: #444444; font-family: Meiryo, "Microsoft JhengHei UI", "Microsoft JhengHei", 微軟正黑體, "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", 微软雅黑体, 微軟雅黑體, "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Lucida Grande", Arial, "WenQuanYi Micro Hei", sans-serif, 黑体, 黑體; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify;"><b>這群女性運動員要同工同酬,男子世界杯足球賽門票收入是她們好幾倍,憑甚麼要給她們更多錢?</b></span><br />
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甫於法國結束的世界杯女子<span style="color: #888888; text-decoration-line: underline;">足球</span>賽在美國受到廣大矚目,總決賽時一千四百萬名觀眾甚至超過去年男子組觀戰人數百分之廿二,而<span style="color: #888888;">社群媒體</span>不斷出現討論也呼應相同熱度。如此高的關注度,當然跟美國代表隊表現有關,她們從分組賽就以十三比零破紀錄大勝泰國,再一路過關斬將在決賽擊敗荷蘭,成功拿到隊史第四座冠軍杯。</div>
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這支球隊獨特之處,在於它代表著美國進步一面。球員不但是各種膚色的融合,更是多元文化的結晶,裡面有異性戀也有同性戀,有推崇動物保護的素食主義者,也有虔誠的基督徒。</div>
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女子足球運動在美國有悠久平權歷史,從一九七二年通過教育法修正案明訂學校不得以性別區分教育資源與環境開始,足球就成為代表性運動,在女性參與人數上獲得爆炸性成長。事實上,美國之所以能在這項運動維持霸權地位,正是因為當時領先全球的平權措施,從起跑線就贏了所有國家好幾步。值得一提的是此教育法修正案後來以夏威夷日裔女眾議員竹本松命名,紀念她對族裔與性別平等的貢獻。</div>
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正如形象鮮明的美國隊長梅根.拉皮諾在慶功遊行致辭所說的「我們有粉紅色與紫色的頭髮,我們有刺青與髮辮,我們有白女孩、黑女孩,還有介於中間的所有顏色」,每個國家代表隊都是全民向心力的凝聚,而拉皮諾與美國隊不但完成衛冕,背後盈溢的社會意義更讓不少人感到驕傲。</div>
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不過,並不是所有愛國美國人都愛這支美國隊。</div>
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<span style="color: #444444;">這群女性運動員要同工同酬,男子世界杯足球賽門票收入是她們好幾倍,憑甚麼要給她們更多錢?這群女性運動員要大家尊重各種性向,卻有反同球員說自己因為不願支持而被排除,為什麼基督教義不受保護?這群女性運動員在比賽進球時大肆慶祝,一點女人該有的端莊賢淑都沒</span>有,要我們怎樣教小孩呢?更重要的是這群女性運動員揚言就算拿冠軍也不會拜訪白宮,她們竟然<span style="color: #444444;">連半數民眾支持的總統都不在乎,那絕對是推倒駱駝的最後一根稻草。</span></div>
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「荷蘭加油!」許多支持讓美國再度偉大的愛國美國人吶喊著,希望冠軍被對手拿走,挫挫這群女人與自由派的銳氣。當今美國就跟台灣一樣,大部分人都愛國,愛的卻不一定是同一國。擁搶自重的美國、多元平等的美國、築牆鎖國的美國、神愛世人的美國、容納<a href="https://udn.com/search/tagging/2/%E7%A7%BB%E6%B0%91" rel="111354" style="color: #0054a6; outline: none; text-decoration-line: none;"><span style="color: #888888; text-decoration-line: underline;">移民</span></a>的美國、種瓜得瓜的美國…人們挑選國家符號裡自己認同部分愛著,問題是這些衝突信仰原本互相兼容存在,卻在政治人物為私利分化群眾後變得勢不兩立,國家就不再是所有人的公因數了。</div>
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「滾回你們來的地方」「不喜歡這裡就請離開」,那些我們已經習以為常的分化語言正在各處持續複製,愛國主義快速蔓延,國家符號卻逐漸混淆。面對如此令人沮喪的態勢,或許,大家都該捫心自問是否我們能做個更好的人:不管自由或保守,能夠生活在同一片土地上,就是最值得珍惜的緣分。</div>
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徐茂瑋http://www.blogger.com/profile/02751415852135312977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-654373743854205582.post-5847072200047367952019-07-16T12:13:00.000+08:002019-08-20T18:57:37.737+08:00今日廣場》徐茂瑋/浪漫的貪婪老人 文 / 徐茂瑋 - 2019-07-16<b><span style="font-family: , serif; text-align: justify; text-indent: 32px;">我</span><span lang="EN-US" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: 32px;">17</span><span style="font-family: , serif; text-align: justify; text-indent: 32px;">歲被高中退學,</span><span lang="EN-US" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: 32px;">18</span><span style="font-family: , serif; text-align: justify; text-indent: 32px;">歲決定以教成績不好、調皮如我的學生為職志,當了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: 32px;">40</span></b><span style="font-family: , serif; text-align: justify; text-indent: 32px;"><b>年高中導師,哪在乎補償金!</b></span><br />
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<br />徐茂瑋http://www.blogger.com/profile/02751415852135312977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-654373743854205582.post-73423581730979505712019-07-13T14:54:00.000+08:002019-07-13T14:54:20.928+08:00徐茂瑋退休了 告別麗山高中<b>徐茂瑋退休了 告別麗山高中</b><br />
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<b><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">他是位「學生至上」的校長。初中部的同學按規定繳童軍費,某個學期快結束了,卻沒有任何童子軍活動,同學們要求退還童軍費,沒有結果,就去找校長,賀校長了解情況之後,親自去初中訓育組說:「把錢還給學生!」然後舉辦了碧潭童子軍露營、烹飪比賽……</span></b></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">1948</span><span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">年我哥哥在建國中學上初中一年級<span lang="EN-US">F</span>班。第一天放學回來堵著嘴不高興,說<span lang="EN-US">A</span>班才是最好的一班,<span lang="EN-US">F</span>班是臨時湊出來的,全是外省小孩,班上同學的年齡差距不小,大個子的坐在後排,上課時互相大聲講話,吵得要命,他們都十五六歲了,每天講男女之間的事情。上課時台上台下同時講話,這個學校哪裡比得上他在北平上的北師大附屬中學呀!爸爸說:「這是日據時代台北最好的中學,現在大陸撤過來的人太多,突然要接納那麼多學生,會亂一陣子,等局面穩定了,一切就能上軌道。」<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<br />徐茂瑋http://www.blogger.com/profile/02751415852135312977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-654373743854205582.post-4049320380309531742019-06-22T11:10:00.001+08:002019-06-22T11:10:21.145+08:00盛治仁/先做人 再做政治人 2019-06-20 23:39聯合報 盛治仁<br />
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">在NBA冠軍賽的激烈競爭中,勇士隊的球星杜蘭特阿基里斯腱斷裂,在比賽過程中痛苦倒地。第一時間,對手多倫多暴龍隊的部分主場球迷開始歡呼,因為少了一位這麼強勁對手,獲勝機會大增。當時好幾位暴龍隊的球員挺身而出,示意觀眾停止這種不人性作法。後來暴龍球迷改為幫杜蘭特鼓掌,並高喊他的名字為他加油致敬。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">這件事發生的前兩戰,也發生另外一件事。一位勇士觀眾,在暴龍隊後衛飛身救界外球的時候,趁機伸手推他一把,還發言辱罵。後來發現這位觀眾還不只是普通的球迷,而是勇士隊的股東之一。後來這位股東被罰五十萬美金,並被禁止一年內進入任何球場觀賽。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">這些事情會發生,原因是部分球迷過於入戲,把球場勝負看的比真實人生還重要,忘了自己應該先做好一個人,再去做一位球迷。許多NBA球員也表達對這些球迷不敢苟同的態度,畢竟勝負只是一場球賽,再怎麼重要,也不應該凌駕於球員的健康之上。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">球評羅斯認為,整個運動文化也是讓杜蘭特受傷的推手之一。當一名職業球員賺很多錢時,人們就會認為他對所有事情免疫,忘記他還是一個人。所以當杜蘭特因傷休息時,承受很大壓力,必須在還沒有完全康復情況下,就趕快回到球場效力,否則會一直受到不夠忠誠或是不拚盡全力的質疑。等到他受重傷,大家才了解他之前傷勢的嚴重性。這種運動文化,也是不夠人性的一部分。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 新細明體, serif; text-indent: 24pt;">其實不只是球賽,這個道理在任何領域都是一樣的。在商場上,先守住一個人基本的價值觀,再設法賺取合理利潤,政治上的競爭亦復如是。政治人物也好,一般選民也好,都不要被熱情或利益沖昏頭,忘記政治競爭的目的,是在服務人民、團結國家。先做好一個人該有的本分,再為黨派立場和利益努力。有從人性出發的優良運動文化、商業文化和政治文化,這些領域才會有正向的發展和循環。</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">在球場上,還可以看到競爭對方的球員站出來,呼籲自己支持者給對方掌聲,或是在比賽結束後,真心的相互擁抱並擊掌打氣。但在政治場域,就真的少之又少了。比較常見的是,相互視為寇讎,以殲滅對方為目的,用盡全力挑起支持者的仇恨情緒,深怕負面能量不夠強大。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast;">這段話很值得大家思考。在未來還要持續一段選舉熱季中,黨內黨外都可能殺得刀刀見骨。如果我們先把自己當作一個自由人,以普世道德觀和價值觀,作為思考和做事的出發點,再回到國家本位,最後才是黨派立場。不要跟著仇恨魔咒起舞,把選舉勝負的結果,看得比人性還重要,用不擇手段方式進行競爭。先做人,再做政治人。(作者為雲品國際董事長)<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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